I have been dancing all my life, since the age of three. These days, I still attend ballet classes at various schools in various cities in order to maintain personal fitness but also to keep in touch with a life-long passion. In attending these various classes, it has come to my attention that there seems to be a slippage in one of the critical foundations for which ballet and the study of ballet is so valuable. That foundation is etiquette.
Etiquette for the ballet world is so important for many reasons. It provides an atmosphere of
respect for the instructor, other classmates and for one’s self. If a ballet student or class participant
exercises proper etiquette, they stand apart.
The effort is appreciated by classmates and the instructor, and if
anyone thinks that good or bad etiquette goes unnoticed, think again. Etiquette is also important for one’s self
because exercising that type of decorum maintains focus and discipline. These are the pillars to improving in your
study of ballet and becoming a professional, as well as being considered
“professional worthy.” This post
discusses proper etiquette that should be employed universally as well as
quickly identifying etiquette preferences and nuances of the studio,
instructor, auditioner, etc. in order to make the best impression possible.
Entering the Class
It should be a given
that the student is on time, prepared and already familiarized with the dress
code of the studio and is appropriately attired and hair is securely fashioned
out of the face and off the neck. As an
instructor, I personally always encouraged students to bring water into the
studio because my expectation is that it sets the tone for 1) the student
should be working hard enough in class that constant rehydration is necessary
and 2) class should not be disrupted with students coming and going in order to
get a drink of water. However, water
bottles accepted into the classroom should be spill proof and capped, and
always placed innocuously in corners, against walls and out of the way of any
across the floor traffic. Many dancers
want to keep their dance bag and other personal belongings in the class with
them to change shoes easily, keep ace bandages and toe shoe wrappings handy,
etc. This should follow similar
placement to be out of the way as well as despite the size of the bag, keep it
and all its contents contained as much as possible. If you carry a suitcase sized dance bag,
proper etiquette dictates that you should have a smaller bag for the
necessities needed during class or rehearsal and leave the rest in the dressing
room.
At the Barre
If you are a visitor or
new to the studio, beware your choice at the barre: For some, their spot at the barre is
considered their spot. It may be silly or downright immature, but
without being cognizant of this territory preference, the student may
inadvertently affront a fellow dancer before class even begins. Maintain a neutral place by the mirror until
class is about to begin and others have chosen their spot, or if space is
scarce, always politely ask the fellow student if you will not be in the way by
choosing the spot you want. If you are
in an audition and you have been numbered, it should be automatic to place
yourself in numerical, or other sequential, order.
Between exercises at
the barre is NOT an opportunity to chat
and catch up on the latest gossip or television series. I realize that some instructors who don’t
plan exercises beforehand sometimes allow talking in class between exercises
while they choreograph the next exercise, but this is a bad habit if your
regular instructor allows this. Between
exercises is a time to stretch or practice, not gab.
Pay attention to the
instructor when they are giving the exercise. I know that from time to time, no matter how
disciplined the student is, for whatever reason, sometimes we just sort of
“zone out” during the instruction. It
happens. But I notice that some students
do this constantly and rely on a very bad habit of watching the student in
front of them trying to execute while they learn the exercise. It is impossible to improve as a dancer if
you do this. Any serious student
understands that at any given moment, a dancer is thinking about hundreds of
aspects with regards to the placement and alignment of their entire body. There is no way to do this correctly if you
haven’t picked up the exercise.
Therefore, that barre time becomes a complete waste. If you also believe that the instructor or
auditioner doesn’t notice who does this, think again. These “watchers” are always off in their
musicality and slightly behind, at best.
At worst, the student is massively butchering the exercise because the
person they are watching didn’t get it right either. Pay attention. Actively and deliberately, pay attention.
If the instructor goes
through the trouble of demonstrating an exercise, this is an opportunity to
pick up on their style preferences.
Notice their head placement, notice if they prefer the arm to move in
position with the working leg, or maintain it in à la seconde. Notice the dynamics of when they move and
count to pick up music accents. It is a
golden opportunity when an instructor demonstrates the exercises and a
privilege. If you, as a student, aren’t
able to pick up an exercise based solely off a verbal instruction, you will
need to spend time learning your dance vocabulary.
Center Work
As previously
mentioned, if you are new or visiting the studio beware of your choice in
placement for center work as well.
Everyone has their own preferences to placement, which mostly has to
either do with a comfort zone or catching the instructor’s attention for
critiquing. Until you have established
yourself as one of the top dancers at the studio, front and center doesn’t
belong to you. Sorry, but that’s
reality. Conversely, even as an adult
dancer past her prime, I’ve experienced dancers monopolizing choice spots that
don’t necessarily belong there 100% of the time, and I have had to subtlety
(which is never all that subtle, by the way, so make sure you are secure in your
place to do this) claim that spot for exercises I knew I would do well. But I have always been aware to rotate myself
from back to front from side to center.
It is hopeful that the body of students can, on their own, switch lines
and placement to give everyone a chance to be easily seen, but unfortunately
this usually has to come at the direction of the instructor. However, if it is not an audition and there
is open policy to do so, don’t be afraid to suggest this yourself. Smile and politely ask the instructor,
“Should we go ahead and switch lines for this next exercise?”
If center work is
divided into groups, also be conscientious of the group that is
performing. It is bad form to practice
behind other dancers while it’s their turn.
It’s distracting for both the dancers and the instructor, and you may be
inadvertently encroaching on the space of the dancers whose turn it is. If you must practice the work prior to your
turn, go off to the side of the studio and try to stay out of line of sight of
the instructor so that their focus is only on the group currently
performing. If you want the opportunity
to do the exercise more than what the group you are assigned to will allow for
extra practice, then make sure you are definitively in the group performing and
not marking the steps in the back space where it is uncertain if you are
dancing or not.
While waiting for your
group’s turn, this is not an opportunity to talk or sit. Every instructor is different but nothing
indicates disrespect to me personally, than someone who sits down during my class. As an instructor, this is my biggest peeve
and as a fellow student, I find it tacky that I have to step over you and you
can’t demonstrate enough stamina to not make it through an hour and half class. This is the time to be learning and
improving, rest comes after the work is put into the class. If you are fixing a shoe, then I am more
understanding but if you are lounging and hanging off the barre, you are
perceived as lazy and not belonging in a serious class or studio.
Two major universal
rules when it comes to across the floor etiquette:
- Be ready to go when it’s your turn and...
- Stay out of the way.
All the studios I’ve been in, all the classes I’ve taken, all of the
auditions and every instructor I have met or taken class from, it is
universally annoying to not be paying attention and go on cue when it’s your
turn to go.
Across the floor exercises are the fastest moving part of the class, and instructors are keened into
observing students in time. If you throw
off that timing, you throw off their tempo and draw negative attention to
yourself and whoever is going across the floor with you. It’s especially bad if the instructor has to
stop and start the music over again. Pay
attention, I cannot say it enough, and be ready.
I will never understand
fellow students who practice the choreography or reverse sides in the pathway
of other dancers coming across the floor.
This is just plain rude to your fellow dancers. Make sure you are always out of the way and
pathway of across the floor performers.
While most dancers will make the mistake of cutting their own practice
and performance of the choreography in order to accommodate you, you may one
day have me in your class, or someone like me, who has zero compunction of
running you down in order to complete my steps at full capacity. So if you want to avoid being branded as rude
and completely unaware of others around you (or receiving a toe shoe in your
rear end), stay out of the way and be considerate of the dancers who are
performing.
End of the Class
Proper etiquette
extends to the very end of the class until you exit the studio. Always curtsy and applaud the instructor when they end the class; whether others
do it or not, or even if you hated their teaching style.
Even if the instructor includes Reverence, it is proper etiquette to
curtsy and applaud the instructor. If
you want to courier favor with the instructor and perhaps garner a last
critique or compliment, I have always recommended that my students walk up and
personally thank the instructor for the class and to say how much they
learned. Some students will also ask a
question regarding technique of a particular exercise; this demonstrates an
interest that all instructors appreciate, but be courteous to notice if the
instructor has the time to impart additional information or if they are
themselves in a hurry to start the next class on time, or simply have to get on
with their day/ evening.
Even if you are very
familiar with your studio and instructor(s) do not yell out a good bye or a
thank you for the class as you exit. Your instructor, no matter how much they may favor you, will frown upon
this as it sets a bad example for other students or younger students observing
your conduct.
These are just some
basic etiquette techniques and every instructor and studio will have various
nuances and preferences with which a student will need to keenly observe and
quickly adopt. But even adopting these
basics will serve any student well as they make their way in the world of
dance.